This knackered old ring…

Yep this knackered old ring is possibly one of the most important pieces of my personal cosmic armour collection and my heal, flow and grow journey too. It looks tired because it’s been used so much, as I write this I’m sat in the back of the car on the way home from a hospital visit. 

Made by me for me, yes I get to do that, this Amethyst focus fidget ring  has supported myself, and consequently my family, for over two years now as we have navigated the journey of our sons health discovery.

I choose not to speak too much publicly about my son’s journey, it’s his story to tell not mine. But what I can speak on is the pain, confusion, lack of hope and sheer panic that it has brought us as his parents.

It’s really not easy being the parent to a child with a difference, be it physical or mental or both. It’s hard frikkin work. It’s hard to keep check on yourself and your own emotions whilst trying to keep your kid calm as they’re being poked and prodded constantly by doctors, as you’re trying to stop them freaking out and panicking when they suddenly find they can’t breath properly. There is nothing easy about that and for those hundreds and thousands of other parents out there going through your own journey with your kids my heart goes out to you. It doesn’t matter how much support you get, ultimately you feel very alone. 

This is where my trusty ring comes in. I made it with purpose, to be a companion for me as my son was going in for a surgery. I chose Amethyst not only for its amazing tranquility and calming properties but because Amethyst has played a huge part of mine and my boys energetic journey together. On our second longer stay in hospital at the beginning of his health discovery I had an incredible experience that involved an Amethyst necklace I have owned for over two decades channeling an incredible amount of healing energy sent to him and us from energy workers, healers and well wishes from literally around the world. In fact this moment was the one that showed me the path of distance healing and how powerful it can be and lead to me doing my crystal healing training.

So, I forged this talismanic ring, with a tiny 4mm Amethyst bead which I infused with the power of that moment. And from that moment on it has been my companion for every trip to the specialist, each trip to a&e, every doctors appointment, his surgeries. Everything. To carry the amazing healing energy that came through that night. To remind me that there is hope, to keep me calm. And not just through the power of the amethyst but through the power of the fidget element. As a chronic fidgeter with a suspected Neurospicy brain focus is not my thing, keeping my emotions in check is not my thing though I am pretty boss when it comes to the medical stuff, thank you to those hyperfocus elements. Having something to play with and to channel those nerves through has been sprit sent. 

And because this ring has been such an incredible support to me I intend to keep this one as low cost and accessible as I can. My whole business is about supporting people get through whatever their tough times happen to be. And this knackered little ring has been with me through some of the toughest times of my life and I am so grateful for it. 

Maybe a focus fidget ring could become your companion, comfort or energiser! Or help you stop you pulling your eyelashes out. Eeep I don’t think I’m alone in this one! Explore via this link! Or perhaps you're looking for something a little different, check out the full Crystal Magic Everyday range!

Have the most beautiful day, remember to find your glimmers, love them, hold them and save them for later! 

Big love, Annie xxxx